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Thursday, November 8, 2001
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A few favorite goodthings from Margo van Gelder of the Hague, the Netherlands:

Summer nights -- so soft and quiet. Autumn colors. The wind. The composer Gorecki. Dave Matthews. Poetry. Just a smile. Memories. Tomorrow. Mandela. "It's not about the falling down, it's about the getting up." No borders.

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In this week's issue:
[GoodLetter] Home Is Where Humanity Is
[Readers Respond] Character Counts, another way to empower kids
[Good Gravy] Things You Can Tell Just By Looking At Her ::: Claire Holley ::: Material World
[The Upshot] Send goodthings this holiday season
[Housekeeping] Subscribe/unsubscribe and other tools for your back pocket


Home Is Where Humanity Is
A passionate drive to make a difference led one woman to pick up a hammer and a nail and head to Costa Rica, determined to help construct homes for people in need. The friendships she discovered and the gratitude she experienced gave her life new purpose.


Fellow GoodLetter readers,

We all have dreams of making a difference in the world. Often, though, we find it's not necessarily the sense of courage or passion that guides us to action, but rather being at a point in our lives where it's feasible and simply makes sense. For years toiling in the high-tech industry, I regularly pondered the idea of doing something in the world that improved people's lives. This interest finally gave way to looking into a new type of vacation one year when I felt that I had earned some real time to get away.

My intent was to volunteer to assist women and children in the challenges they faced due to lack of education, limited resources, and political oppression. But it wasn't until I learned about an upcoming journey to Costa Rica on behalf of Habitat for Humanity that my dream became very specific. Habitat is a non-profit organization that seeks to eliminate world poverty and homelessness and make decent shelter a matter of conscience and action. Their Global Village program features one- to three-week international trips that give participants a unique opportunity to become active partners with people of other cultures. I was profoundly inspired by the program's approach; they literally construct more positive futures for families in the world community by providing their lives with a critical and important foundation.

I joined ten other people -- all from different places, all with different backgrounds, ranging from medicine to teaching to plumbing to my own marketing credentials. We were all strangers for less than 24 hours as we came to know each other quickly, sharing stories about each other's unique attitudes on life and our common interests in improving it for those who needed help. And though our days were simple -- living in close quarters at the Foundacion, a schoolhouse located in the remote village of San Ramon, and working on the job site all day for almost ten days -- we couldn't have been more satisfied.

The concrete block and mortar homes we built didn't seem like much, but the four families for whom we built them were unbelievably appreciative. We spent our days mixing mortar and concrete by hand, laying concrete brick, digging sanitary tank ditches, and sawing these little pieces of wood used for framing -- pretty grueling work in upwards of 90-degree weather. Many Costa Ricans -- they call themselves Ticos -- joined us in the hard labor as well, expressing such an amazing sense of gratitude for our work. Although most of us only speak a little Spanish, language truly wasn't a problem for us. The Ticos we worked with taught us words throughout the day. My favorite? "Listo," which means ready or finished! We shared many emotional moments during our two-week stay as we were constantly reminded of the life-changing power of what we were doing.

Of course, the trip wasn't all about work. On our third day, we visited Villa Blanco to experience a cloud-forest canopy tour where we were harnessed in gear and zipping across cable lines strewn about 300 feet above the forest floor. Our guides were these younger men who loved to tease me, not so funny when their idea of fun was bouncing the cable lines where I sat dangling. You can imagine my face in that photo! We also had an overnight trip to Volcan Arenal, where hiking and hot springs were the only agenda.

We wrapped up our work in Costa Rica with a special evening celebration with all of the people whose lives we touched. The village celebrated us as the "Valentine Brigade," only fitting since our trip was in mid-February.

I will never be able to put into words how inspirational those Costa Rican days felt, surrounded by energetic new friends and partners. It was one of those transformative life experiences. I've learned how incredibly generous people can be and what little effort it takes to make a tremendous difference. The Ticos whose homes we helped build are so poor but so happy, certainly a good lesson for us all.

Nowadays, toiling away again at work is spent not dreaming about making a difference but, instead, planning my next trip as part of Habitat for Humanity's Global Village.

:: Megan Prentiss

A few of the favorite goodthings Megan and her friends shared in Costa Rica:
Friendly Costa Ricans. Electro-arcing showers. Good ice cream. Good Tosco gloves. Lots of coffee. No rush hour traffic. Nice rooster alarm clock. Soothing swims. Imperial ale. Swingin' with the monkeys. Honest exchange of heartfelt emotions. The best rice and beans ever. Orchids. The Palmares-to-San Ramon mountain road.


(Thoughts on Megan's GoodLetter? E-mail us -- don't forget to tell us your name, where you're from, and if we can use your words in a future GoodLetter or on our Web site.)


TALK ABOUT IT
How important is it to you that all people have access to decent, affordable shelter? How are people and groups around you working to make "home" an inalienable right? Share your stories and ideas.

LEARN MORE ABOUT IT
:: Why Habitat for Humanity?
:: Local Initiatives Support Organization
:: National Low Income Housing Coalition
:: Housing Research Foundation
:: Guide to attractive, affordable housing

DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT
:: Get involved with Habitat for Humanity
:: Connect with Habitat's Women Build program
:: Build houses with Americorps*VISTA

Need more inspiration? See how one person cared about creating affordable housing and did something about it.

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Readers Respond
Thanks to Hannah Dannenbring from Hanlontown, Iowa, for writing to share her ideas about efforts to prevent violence in schools:

"I am a fairly new subscriber and truly find your GoodLetter uplifting, action-oriented, and generally excellent.

My husband, who is currently working at the Area Education Agency in Clear Lake/Mason City, Iowa as an assessment expert, is also active in "Character Counts," a program promoting many of the same things described in the "Safe and Empowered" piece from your November 1 issue. I am e-mailing that piece to him at work. Both my husband and I are very interested in encouraging schools to take active steps to decrease the teasing, violence, verbal abuse, and other behavior by students (and sometimes, unfortunately by teachers), and increasing the awareness of how painful these things are to the children experiencing them on a regular basis. Empower sounds like another excellent program addressing those issues and talking about not just the problem but also how to be proactive by taking positive steps to prevent the problem. Thank you for your excellent article on this problem and on a program that addresses these issues in a positive way."

Find out how the Character Counts program fosters trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, and citizenship. Visit the Character Counts Web site.

Did you miss GoodLetter #61 and the "Safe and Empowered" piece? Read it now.


We love to hear from you about anything: ideas or situations that are inspiring you or challenging you to think, as well as organizations, programs, and people that contribute to your community and the world everyday. Please drop us a line.

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The Upshot
Over the past year we've asked you, our GoodLetter subscribers, and visitors to our Web site to share lists of your "favorite goodthings": organizations that inspire you, companies doing good deeds, the simple but profound pleasures that fill your days. We have received so many wonderful and inspiring responses from around the world that we came up with a new and creative way to share them: our new Favorite GoodThings (sm) greeting cards. This series of eight eye-catching cards features some of the lists we have received from places as far apart as Iowa and India, Malaysia and Mexico. They're a great way to experience the world through other people and to share some of life's universal "goodthings" with your own friends and family. You'll be able to buy these cards, as well as our specially designed holiday cards, on our Web site very soon. Come to our Web site to check out a preview.

If you would like to be notified when our new greeting cards are available for sale, please send an e-mail to notifyme@goodthings.com.

THE UPSHOT. Above all.

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Good Gravy
Please click through to our Web site to see what we're reading, watching, and listening to and, while you're at it, let us know what we're missing.

Movies
Great Movie Rental! Things You Can Tell Just By Looking At Her (2001). Seven women -- their lives ever so slightly connected, their stories amazingly universal -- present remarkable visions of love, passion, grief, and the senses in this astonishing film. Read the review.

Music
Great New Music! Claire Holley Claire Holley (2001). Claire Holley goes Looking For Signs and establishes herself as a refreshing new talent. Read the review.

Books
Great Reading! Material World Peter Menzel (1995). If you could look inside the homes of people from all corners of the globe, what would you see? Profound differences, moving similarities, and incredible insight into the vast Material World. Read the review from our friends at Chinaberry.

GoodThings on Public Radio
Have you been checking out the summaries of our favorite public radio stories? Here's a sample from this week's All Things Considered on National Public Radio:

Amelie Is All Good
Amelie, a French film just released in the US, is all about good things. The title character is a somewhat isolated and introverted person who changes her own fortunes by doing anonymous good deeds for people she doesn't know. Amelie experiences infectious joy after seeing the results of her actions, and eventually it comes back around to her. The unabashedly upbeat film was originally rejected by the Cannes Film Festival before it became last year's biggest box-office smash in France. Visit our site to listen to this story and see what else has been on the radio this week.


Want to share some Good Gravy of your own? Tell us what you're reading, watching, or listening to and why you think it's good.

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